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The conversation around Brooklyn Beckham’s strained relationship with his parents intensified again last week after reports surfaced claiming David and Victoria Beckham had unfollowed their eldest son on Instagram. The claims quickly ignited renewed speculation about the state of the family dynamic until Brooklyn’s younger brother stepped in publicly to correct the narrative.
Taking to Instagram, Cruz Beckham pushed back on the reports, clarifying that the situation had been mischaracterized. According to him, their parents did not choose to unfollow Brooklyn; instead, they woke up to find themselves blocked, as was he.

Sources close to the family say the current estrangement did not emerge suddenly, but rather grew over time amid deeper struggles surrounding identity, expectations, and belonging. As the eldest Beckham child, Brooklyn has long carried the weight of being the first to step into adulthood under intense public scrutiny. While his siblings have had the benefit of observing that process from the sidelines, Brooklyn faced the pressure of carving out a future in real time and in full view of the public.
Insiders say the challenge was compounded by the fact that Brooklyn’s interests never neatly aligned with the arenas in which his parents built their global success. He was unlikely to pursue elite sports, music, or fashion design, leaving him to explore alternative creative paths. Over the years, David and Victoria are said to have supported those explorations, backing Brooklyn as he pursued photography and later encouraging his interest in cooking. By most accounts, they were willing to invest emotionally and financially in whatever direction he wanted to try.
Despite that support, Brooklyn reportedly struggled to find lasting fulfillment or a sense of independence through those ventures. Sources say the disconnect between opportunity and outcome took an emotional toll, particularly given the enormity of the Beckham legacy. Feeling unable to meet expectations, whether real or perceived, allegedly left him increasingly discouraged.
Nicola Peltz, whom Brooklyn later married, is said to have entered his life with a very different outlook. Raised in a family with extraordinary generational wealth, Nicola reportedly views privilege as a form of security that removes the need for traditional measures of success. From that perspective, ambition does not need to be tied to professional milestones or public validation.
According to those familiar with the situation, that mindset resonated deeply with Brooklyn. What began as reassurance, that his value did not depend on career achievements, allegedly evolved into a broader reinterpretation of his upbringing. Sources claim Nicola encouraged the belief that Brooklyn’s parents’ expectations made their support feel conditional, framing his struggles as the result of pressure.
As that narrative took hold, Brooklyn’s resentment allegedly deepened. His parents’ long-standing push for him to “find his path” came to feel less like guidance and more like judgment. Over time, those feelings widened the emotional distance between them, eventually leading to estrangement.
Brooklyn’s decision to take Nicola’s last name has been viewed by insiders as emblematic of that shift. Sources say it reflects his desire to align himself more closely with Nicola’s worldview and her family, which he now sees as his primary emotional support system.
The tension became particularly visible around the couple’s wedding. Nicola’s decision not to wear a Victoria Beckham design, despite early indications that she might, was widely noted. Sources say that as Nicola allegedly increasingly believed Brooklyn's hurt was connected to longstanding family dynamics, wearing one of Victoria’s creations no longer felt consistent with that stance.
Victoria’s later decision to use the couple’s first-dance song during the wedding festivities has been described as an emotional, and perhaps ill-judged, response. Instead, insiders say it provided additional fuel for the rift.
Despite the ongoing distance, those close to David and Victoria say the couple has not lost hope that time and perspective could eventually lead to reconciliation. They also firmly deny claims that they initiated the social media break, maintaining that they were blocked, not disengaged by choice.
For now, the situation remains unresolved. At its heart, sources describe it as a deeply personal conflict rooted not in fame, but in differing values, and the complicated realities of growing up under extraordinary expectations.